Upcoming Episodes of Families Divided TV
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The Psychological Work of the Rejected Parent - Dr. Kelley Baker
March 25 • 8PM ET
In this presentation, Dr. Baker will explore some of the hardest questions that targeted parents most frequently ask her, how targeted parents can avoid feeding into the alienating parent's agenda by psychologically taking care of themselves, and how the concept of ambiguous loss may be helpful to alienated parents who are faced with the only option of walking away.
Kelley A. Baker, PhD, LPC Dr. Baker graduated from the University of Texas at Austin in 2002 with a doctorate degree in Developmental, Social, and Personality Psychology and a master’s degree in Program Evaluation. She also holds a master’s degree in Counseling and Guidance and is a Licensed Professional Counselor. Dr. Baker has over 25 years of clinical experience serving families going through separation and divorce. As a forensic consultant in the Austin area of central Texas, she serves primarily as a court appointed guardian ad litem, a court appointed custody evaluator, and an expert on topics related to high conflict divorce. Her professional career includes teaching as an adjunct professor of undergraduate and graduate psychology and counseling courses and providing continuing education and training to mental health and legal professionals. She has presented training for local and state Bar Associations. Her publications include co-authored chapters in The Litigator’s Handbook: Forensic Psychiatry and Psychology and in Gender and Domestic Violence: Contemporary Legal Practice and Intervention Reforms. She has also contributed articles to the National Parents Organization. Dr. Baker is an active member in the American Counseling Association (ACA), The Association of Family and Conciliatory Courts (AFCC), Parental Alienation Study Group where she serves on the membership committee, and the International Council on Shared Parenting (ICSP), where she served for two years as the vice-president of family professions. www.kelleybakerphd.com.
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How Brainwashing Works on a Child’s Brain - Bill Eddy
April 1 • 8PM ET
A child’s developing brain learns primarily through experience and is shaped in many ways by their parent’s behavior throughout childhood. This program will talk about parts of a child’s brain that are easily influenced including the long-term development of the two hemispheres, the amygdala, and the corpus callosum. The issue of pruning neurons in early adolescence will be addressed which may partially erase a child’s positive memories of a previously loved parent. We will look at how the child adopts a purely negative vision of one parent (the rejected parent) based on repetition of highly emotional statements while in isolation with the other parent (the favored parent), and why allowing the isolation of a child with a high-conflict parent is to be strongly avoided.
Bill Eddy is co-founder and chief innovation officer of High Conflict Institute. He pioneered the High Conflict Personality Theory (HCP) and is the world’s leading expert on methods for managing disputes involving people with high conflict personalities. Bill has worked as the senior family mediator at the National Conflict Resolution Center, a certified family law specialist representing clients in family court, and a licensed clinical social worker therapist. In 2021, he received the Lifetime Achievement award from the Academy of Professional Mediators. He serves on the faculty of the Straus Institute for Dispute Resolution at the Pepperdine University School of Law in California and is a conjoint associate professor with the University of Newcastle Law School in Australia. He has delivered talks and trainings in more than 30 U.S. states and thirteen countries and is the author or co-author of 20 books. His popular blog on the Psychology Today website has more than 5 million views. He trains lawyers, judges, and mediators, and regularly consults on issues of alienation, family violence, and false allegations in family court cases.
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Parental Alienation in Family Courts - Attorney Ashish Joshi
April 8 • 8PM ET
Parental Alienation is a severe issue facing family courts all around the world. Attorney Ashish Joshi shares some information to help in family court with parental alienation.
Ashish Joshi is the owner and managing partner of Joshi: Attorneys + Counselors. He serves as the lead counsel in high-stakes, complex family law and divorce cases. He has counseled and/or represented clients in state and federal courts across the United States and internationally, including in India, United Kingdom, Canada, Luxembourg, Japan, Hong Kong, British Virgin Islands, and China. Mr. Joshi has been admitted to the Bar of the Supreme Court of the United States, state bars of New York, Michigan, the District of Columbia, and Gujarat, India. Mr. Joshi serves as a senior editor of Litigation, the flagship journal of the ABA’s Section of Litigation, and on the advisory board of The Champion, the journal published by the National Association of Criminal Defense Lawyers (NACDL). He is the author of the forthcoming book, Litigating Parental Alienation.
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Rules of Estrangement - Dr. Joshua Coleman
April 15 • 8PM ET
Dr. Joshua Coleman speaks with Dr. Colleen Murray about his book, "Rules of Estrangement".
Labeled a silent epidemic by a growing number of therapists and researchers, estrangement is one of the most disorienting and painful experiences of a parent's life. Popular opinion typically tells a one-sided story of parents who got what they deserved or overly entitled adult children who wrongly blame their parents. However, the reasons for estrangement are far more complex and varied. As a result of rising rates of individualism, an increasing cultural emphasis on happiness, growing economic insecurity, and a historically recent perception that parents are obstacles to personal growth, many parents find themselves forever shut out of the lives of their adult children and grandchildren.
As a trusted psychologist whose own daughter cut off contact for several years and eventually reconciled, Dr. Joshua Coleman is uniquely qualified to guide parents in navigating these fraught interactions. He helps to alleviate the ongoing feelings of shame, hurt, guilt, and sorrow that commonly attend these dynamics. By placing estrangement into a cultural context, Dr. Coleman helps parents better understand the mindset of their adult children and teaches them how to implement the strategies for reconciliation and healing that he has seen work in his forty years of practice. Rules of Estrangement gives parents the language and the emotional tools to engage in meaningful conversation with their child, the framework to cultivate a healthy relationship moving forward, and the ability to move on if reconciliation is no longer possible.
While estrangement is a complex and tender topic, Dr. Coleman's insightful approach is based on empathy and understanding for both the parent and the adult child. -

Identification of Parental Alienation - Dr. Amy Baker
April 22 • 8PM ET
Dr. Baker will be speaking to us on the identification of alienation. There is both parental alienation and grandparent alienation. Not all children or grandchildren who reject a parent or grandparent are alienated. it is not possible to tell based on the child's rejection whether the child is alienated, estranged, or a combination of both. This talk will represent the four-factor model for identification of parental alienation. The purpose of the talk is to provide the listener with the information necessary for determining whether a child is alienated or not. the information can also be used for figuring out how to prepare evidence for one's attorney and the courts, including types and level of evidence.
Dr.Amy J.L. Baker has a PhD in Development Psychology from Teachers College of Columbia University. She is a nationally and internationally recognized expert in parental alienation and psychological maltreatment of children. She is the author or co-author of 8 books and over 115 articles. Some of her books are Adult children of parental alienation, surviving parental alienation, co-parenting with a toxic ex, and the high conflict custody battle. She has conducted trainings for legal and mental health professionals around the country.
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The Crime and Trauma of International Parental Child Abduction - Jeffery Morehouse
April 29 • 8PM ET
Every year nearly 1,000 U.S. children are kidnapped by a parent to a foreign country and cut off from the only life they know. Since 1994 more than 475 have been kidnapped to Japan. The last time I saw my only child, the last time I heard his voice, was Father’s Day 2010 when I dropped him off to visit his mother. Tune in to learn more about this ongoing crisis, prevention, and efforts to end international parental child abduction. In addition to being an award-winning filmmaker,
Jeffery Morehouse, volunteers much of his time as Executive Director of Bring Abducted Children Home (www.bachome.org). According to U.S. Government figures more than 475 American children have been kidnapped by a parent to Japan since 1994. Bring Abducted Children Home is a nonprofit organization dedicated to the immediate return of internationally abducted children being wrongfully detained in Japan. It also strives to end Japan's human rights violation of denying children unfettered access to both parents. BAC Home works to increase public awareness through outreach on the crisis of international parental child abduction. He collaborates with an alliance of international partners working to end child abduction to and within in Japan. He is also a founding partner in The Coalition to End International Parental Child Abduction (www.endchildabduction.org) uniting organizations to work passionately to end international parental kidnapping of children through advocacy and public policy reform. In July 2022, U.S. Senate Resolution 568, noted, “the Coalition to End International Parental Child Abduction, through dedicated advocacy and regular testimony, has highlighted the importance of this issue to Congress and called on successive administrations to take concerted action to stop international parental child abduction and repatriate kidnapped United States children.” Between 2015-2021 he testified and briefed the U.S. Congress eight times. Most recently on September 29, 2021 in The Tom Lantos Human Rights Commission and December 10, 2018 in the U.S. House Foreign Affairs Committee on Japan’s systemic failure to return kidnapped children. In October 2022 he briefed the United Nations Human Rights Committee on parental child abduction and loss of access within and to Japan. This resulted in the UN reporting Japan should, introduce necessary measures. Since 2011 he has led hundreds of policy meetings on Capitol Hill, The Department of Justice, The Department of State, foreign embassies and The White House. In 2022 he contributed to the updated, “When Your Child is Missing: A Family Survival Guide 5th Edition, 2022". The guide is provided by the AMBER Alert Training and Technical Assistance Program, an initiative of the U.S. Department of Justice, Office of Justice Programs, Office of Juvenile Justice and Delinquency Prevention. He has testified as an expert witness in the California and Florida family courts on prevention cases. Information about his son’s 2010 kidnapping to Japan and efforts to locate him and reunite are at: www.bringmochihome.wordpress.com and www.bachome.org/mochi-morehouse/ Though his U.S. sole custody order was recognized as legal by courts in Japan in 2014 and 2017, his son “Mochi” Atomu Imoto Morehouse (井本 _歩⼟夢) remains kidnapped and cut off from him. He believes it is important for parents of internationally kidnapped children to strategically engage in raising the level of awareness this human and family rights crisis.